Me: “Does it really matter? I just want to know the meaning behind the phrase.” Student eagerly jumps in with, “OMG, who was left on open?” I am trying to figure out what is meant to be left on open?” Me: “So, I was wondering if you could help me out a little. My conversation with this student went as follows: I scan the room carefully, and ask to see one of my best resources for teenage drama assistance. I watch her disappear into a classroom and hurriedly I open the door to another room of students. She agrees and promises to come see me if she needs anything. I assure her that everything was going to be okay, to take a deep breathe and take one class period at a time. So, without further hesitation, I proceed with “Who left you on open” and cross my fingers that I even want to know what is meant by on open?” She was very forthcoming with the name of a 14 year old boy who also attends the school. Without even saying anything, she looked at me and said, “He left me on open.” I pause, trying to look as if I understand her predicament, but really I am stalling while I plan my intervention. I catch her eye with my most sympathetic gaze. I always want to make sure all of my students are okay, but I don't want to make a situation worse during what appears to be a very trying time for her. I approach cautiously - as a four-year old, little boy would a bunny when trying to catch the cute little creature. So, I decide to intervene, just like any other compassionate adult would in this situation. I see this teary-eyed young lady quietly walking down the hall to homeroom. Just when I think I caught up and learned the ins and outs of middle school students, I run head on into a brick wall.
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